THE UNCIVIL WAR!
TABACCO: Men and women are to each other genetically as mankind is to the ape – pretty much the same except for a few genetic anomalies here and there. But those few genetic anomalies make a helluva difference.
Women seek companions, who pass minimum requirements; then proceed to improve, purify, overhaul, fine-tune, refine, cultivate, civilize, teach, instruct, program, surveil, denigrate, castigate, revile, encourage, demean, observe, assess, vet and redo. At least you cannot call these women lazy!
Sexual Turn-On or Westminster?
If you are a man and this image
appeals to you,
thank your mother, Oedipus!
The resulting relationship forces females to become irritable, vindictive, aggressive, irrational, compulsive, vengeful, miserable and confused.
The resulting relationship forces males to seek greener pastures. The definition of INSANITY is doing the same thing over and over while expecting a different result! I never implied guys were all that bright.
There are a few relationships between men and women that do work out. Of these successful relationships, few are due to the male. The female has selected a male from those pods in the original film version of ‘Invasion of the Bodysnatchers’. He has no personality of his own, is masochistic, perpetually subservient and euphoric about NOT being alone. In actuality, the success is really due to her selection of a male partner.
But most of these successful relationships are due entirely to the female. She does NOT improve, purify, overhaul, fine-tune, refine, cultivate, civilize, teach, instruct, program, surveil, denigrate, castigate, revile, demean, observe, assess, vet or redo. She may have done so initially (after all, this is her nature), but she ceased these practices before it was too late. She didn’t get what she wanted, but she wants what she got.
Most women are not that wise or flexible! In fact most women never give up attempting to emulate Dr. Frankenstein while recreating their men in that image of perfection in their own minds.
Instead of saying, “My man is hopeless” or words of that ilk, these successful females tell their girlfriends, “My man is not as bad as other guys”. That is known as damning with faint praise, but at least it’s a start!
The truly smart gals say, “My man is terrific in bed” (Translation: Viagra and Cialis wouldn’t even help him), “He treats me like a queen” (Translation: he doesn’t beat me unless I deserve it), “I’m crazy about him” (As if she had a choice) or the proverbial, “He’s perfect” (OK, so she’s an abominable liar – so what).
This misalignment of the sexes begins with mothers and sons. Boys get used to being dominated by a woman, and women are already prone to having authority to order preadolescent boys around without resistance or revolt. The Transitional process should be clear to one and all.
Sado-Masochism or Mother-Son End Product?
After most women get through redefining their partners, he may not look like the Frankenstein Monster; but if he acts like him, at least now we all know why!
Man In A Relationship!
Tabacco: I consider myself both a funnel and a filter. I funnel information, not readily available on the Mass Media, which is ignored and/or suppressed. I filter out the irrelevancies and trivialities to save both the time and effort of my Readers and bring consternation to the enemies of Truth & Fairness! When you read Tabacco, if you don’t learn something NEW, I’ve wasted your time.
Tabacco is not a blogger, who thinks; I am a Thinker, who blogs. Speaking Truth to Power!
In 1981′s ‘Body Heat’, Kathleen Turner said, “Knowledge is power”.